Monday, 27 August 2012

My Fiancée

Assalamualaikum wbt and salam sejahtera.  

A real man can see your problems & accept you for them. If he really cared, he would help you to the best of your abilities. A real man would not care how similar or different you are either. If he really cares, he will hold you high in both his heart & mind no matter what you are or aren't.

How's everyone ? After a long break, I continue writing my blog. So, Raya was so happening right ? Exhausted too ! :|  I've got less than a week to register as a new student in Unimas. Blah. I'm not excited about it. Not at all.

Today's entry is about MY FIANCEE. *I hope you guys who follows up my blog already forgot about my last update about some stories. Lol. Im just lazy to talk about it* Nang ada ikut mood ndah -______-
So, I'm not going to tell the world about my fiancee's profile, family background or resume but I wanna share some of his attitude and personality that make me kinda proud and respect him. 

1. His attitude that I love the most : He puts Allah on his first priority then followed by his parents. 
Every time I hang out with him, he will always not forget to perform solah. Maybe some people will say, " Eleh, of course because he was hanging out with you and wanna show off that he kind of a pious man.." And maybe some of our society will say, "That's normal. Performing solah is our kewajiban" YES. I totally agreed of the second statement but trust me, there's not a lot of man out there will find time and perform solah while hanging out. Easy for them, they will just Qada'. And I once read this, " A man who forgets Allah, his creator, will easily forget you ( also His creator ) . " When I'm in my period, he's always recite 3 kul and Ayyatul Kursi before I go to sleep. Lol. That was sweet >.< About his parents, I can see from the way he talks, thinks, and also the way he gives me advises. 

2. Not easily get angry. HAHA. This. Guess what, he never gets angry towards me. I don't know towards other people but yeah, all I know is the way he talks, he always use soft words. I'm not saying that he is kind of 'pondan' but I did watch him joking around with his brother and nephews and also kakak kakak and yeah , he's just nice. ( Dia bercakap tone sama. Tak pernah naik, tak pernah turun..) HAHAHA.

3. OH MAI GAAAD I JUST REALISED THERE ARE SO MANY THINGS TO TALK ABOUT HIM AND I ALSO REALISED THIS IS IN CAPS ! Okay. Enough said, I love him because of Him. Allah, what a good man you give me and he's the best. Besides, up until now, you've already given me such a good parents, siblings, friends, life, house, stuffs, gadgets ! There are a load ! I pray that, he is my destiny. He is the one You created, that will bring me to your way. InsyaAllah. Amiiin :) 
Just give me and him strength to face obstacles in order to find the true path towards You. I have nothing, I hope nothing except you. My final destination !

Last but not least, I love you not because of who you are. It's because of who I am when i am with you. 

Thanks and take care people ! :D










Sunday, 12 August 2012

Wanita

Assalamualaikum wbt and salam sejahtera :)

Hm. I just go through Facebook's news feed and Twitter's timeline. So, today's entry is about my perspective on people's acting on Facebook. I'm not here to judge others, but somehow I want to give my opinions regarding this. Just read and respect. If you want to comment anything or wanna add something, please do so. No offence but I think I have to say what am I thinking. That's why Blog exists right ?

I sometimes don't really care what you gonna share or post or comment on Facebook. Like seriously, I won't 'f' care. However, this thing keeps on my mind. *I'm going to write in BM and BI. Sorry for mixing the languages okay*

Sesetengah manusia, post status kira-kira 5 minit sekali. I wanna say 'hai' untuk this type of people. Social network yang  lain seperti Twitter adalah digalakkan anda melakukan sedemikian. Facebook lebih kepada sharing infos and photos yang boleh mengembangkan minda jadi kita pun online tak la buang masa dan sia-sia. Kalau setakat status yang biasa-biasa, tapi sehari satu, tak kisah la. Asal menyemak doh ? And also, photos. Kan elok kalau Facebook digunakan untuk berdakwah, menyampaikan ilmu agama. Bukan kita hendak menunjuk-nunjuk pada dunia tapi niat itu penting. If niat pun just hanya hendak berkongsi ilmu pengetahuan, insyaAllah, ada pahala di situ. Tak kisah la apa orang akan cakap, bukan orang yang bagi kita rezeki bukan ?

So, I finish talking about Facebook. Actually my main point for today is : " Apabila perempuan non-Muslim berkahwin dengan lelaki Muslim yang 'boleh tahan' perangainya ". Every things I wrote after this is actually based on true story.

1. Seorang perempuan non-Muslim berkahwin dengan seorang lelaki Muslim. Lelaki ini tidak lagi mempunyai ibu-bapa tetapi mempunyai pekerjaan dan gaji yang lumayan manakala perempuan ini hanya kerja biasa sahaja yang hanya menggunakan kereta Toyota. So, dipendekkan cerita, mereka bertemu di pub, ataupun dikenali sebagai kelab malam. *Faham-fahamlah* . Apabila mereka berjumpa, akhirnya bercinta dan ahirnya terlanjur, mereka mengambil keputusan untuk berkahwin. *Oh lupa. Lelaki itu duda anak 3. Bercerai dengan isteri pertamanya akibat salah faham* Setelah berkahwin, ingatkan mereka akan hidup bahagia, *Walaupun lelaki itu memberi nafkah yang terlebih cukup untuk isterinya* tetapi perempuan itu merasa tidak bahagia kerana sering didera oleh suaminya. Suaminya sering menggunakan words kesat dan tidak pernah bercakap lemah lembut dengan isterinya. Apa yang saya ingin sampaikan adalah : Wanita ini masuk Islam hanya disebabkan lelaki ini dan lelaki ini tidak sekalipun mengarah isterinya untuk belajar Al-Quran mahupun solat sedangkan lelaki itu tidak pernah meniggalkan solat. Seorang yang tidak pernah meninggalkan solat tetapi bertindak kejam terhadap isteri, itu ironic bukan ? Hm. *Malas nak taip lagi !* HAHAHA.

Take care and TTYL . 
*To be continued*






Thursday, 9 August 2012

New Entry.

Assalamualaikum w.b.t and salam sejahtera.

WOAH ! It've been a long time since I posted my last entry. Well, dengan sokongan seorang rakan, Fatimah Adreena, I want to tulis-tulis again here in my blog. Sometimes there are some good ideas but I just feel lazy to type. *Ugh Qibah, such a lazy ass* Actually, sincerely, I don't even know how to start. Lmfao. Fail. *Shoot myself*

It's Ramadhan and tonight is the 21st night of Ramadhan. All of us really want to see the Lailatul Qadar. Am I right to say that ? But unluckily, me myself, I do think that I'm not that special to face and experience that malam yang lebih baik daripada seribu bulan.Anyway, we just keep praying for that, not only in Ramadhan but everyday we should pray for it. Mana lah tahu kot-kot nasib baik, jumpa la Lailatul Qadar, InsyaAllah. Okay, selamat menunaikan puasa di bulan Ramadhan dan selamat hari raya aidilfitri ! :D *Puasa pun tak tamat la, Qibah* Hoho.

So, *Dari tadi so tapi main point belom ada* .I just finished my study in Foundation of Life Science in Unimas. So, September ni Qibah will continue my further study at Unimas again, in Resource of Chemistry. *Sedih because my result dapat masuk for medicine but I didnt ask for that course* . But no worries, rezeki Allah ada di mana-mana. Bersyukurlah daripada tak dapat apa-apa kan ? So, Qibah sangat bersabar untuk masuk balik sebab if masuk belajar, nak balik pulak. If dah cuti, nak belajar pulak. Tembak kang ! Haih. Rumah Qibah dari Unimas just 8 minutes tapi -___- *Susah nak explain*  Jadi sekarang Qibah dah ketandusan idea. Nak 'wassalam' tak ? Or belum lagi ? Haha.

Okay. 07th July 2012 yang lepas, Qibah dah selamat jadi tunangan orang *OMAIGAAD QIBAH TAK DAPAT FLIRT LAGI !!* Nope, flirting and be friendly are different actually. Haha. Qibah tak la flirt, just being friendly. Alhamdulillah, I got a best guy in the world. :) There are loads of pictures of that day, but Qibah malas nak upload *MALAS LAGI OKAY TAKE NOTE* Oh, by the way, Qibah tukar nama kat blog sebab Qibah dah membesar jadi seorang gadis yang manis, tak comot macam dulu dah. *Eh, ada pulak..* Then, I selit some of my pictures here kay ? :D 

Me waktu majlis pertunangan. Look so old -__-


 HAHA ! Random pic. Eh ngegeh ! >.<


 Iman and Luqman. My buah hati pengarang jantung. ( Anak kakak ) Hehe


Luqman is a handsome boy !! I love you. Haha. 


Okay, Qibah tak tahu nak cakap apa lagi sedangkan banyak je ideas. Omaigaaad my dad baru je tengok my blog and he was like, " Eh, unnecessary thing la tu. Pergi padam and masuk tido " HAHA. I dont care. Banyak la yang Qibah terlepas nak bagitahu kat blog. Sangat banyak. Dah dekat dekat jugak setahun kan Qibah tak update blog ? Hm. Later, ill be more discipline to update my blog * Ala, first-first je semangat* 
Okay and dont forget to follow me on Twitter @naqibahyakob. TTYL :)

You live your life because of yourself. Not to please others. Wassalam. :)